Bethanie Carr resides in the southeast United States. Bethanie Carr has dated online off and on for approximately 6 years. Mrs. Carr decided to write Unlocking the Secrets of Internet Dating when, after telling her experiences to friends and co-workers, she was repeatedly told that she should write a book warning others of what exists in the dating pool of online daters. After 6 years of online dating, Mrs. Carr met her husband and the two have been married for almost two years.