Abstract:
We witness each others’ farewells after many forms of loss and we grieve, or struggle for words to comfort the grieving. Almost a century ago, American philosopher and poet, George Santayana wrote, “There is nothing sweeter than to be sympathized with.” (The Life of Reason, 1905) This book is an easy-to-use reference, gently educating about various losses. Caring, non-judgmental and non-preaching condolence expressions are exemplified by sample letters where the use of writing tools called “Keys to Comfort” are highlighted. Topics include: prolonged illness; visiting caregivers; childrens’ deaths - miscarriage, illness, accident, murder; writing to youth; suicide; pet deaths; job loss; divorce; when you do not know the deceased; sympathy cards; timing; anniversaries; and other remembrances.